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Advice To Men On Relationships

1. Don’t dress shabby, even if you don’t have expensive clothes, dress well. Always look presentable.

2. Don’t be extremely possessive: don’t monitor
a lady (checking her phone messages, calls, her where abouts),you are putting yourself under unnecessary pressure, you’ll die young. Don’t stress and die for a lady you have not yet married.

3. Only give 100% of yourself to God, not a lady you have not married because he won’t Break your heart.

4. work on friendship first, when friendship is sorted she will eventually see no other friendship that is relevant.

5. Appreciate a lady’s effort to please you. (e.g. She buys a tie; don’t say I don’t wear ties or I don’t like the color)

6. Hygiene is vital: shave your beards, don’t be like a terrorist from Afghanistan. Even Joseph when he came out of prison he shaved before going before Pharoah. Smell well.

7. don’t date a girl because of her image and status: most girls from rich families can’t cook and are most likely not to appreciate your efforts to please them, they are hard to impress (e.g. you surprise her with a car, she be like where is the surprise?). But someone from a humble family will appreciate gifts.

8. Don’t be moved by physical appearance: true beauty is her character. A foolish lady thinks everything about herself is her body.

9. Develop yourself: continue being educated…etc.

10. Never rebuke a lady in public, in public she won’t see a rebuke but an embarrassment : call her to a corner or private place and tell her(“what you doing is embarrassing me”). Because women don’t think with their brain but with their emotions; use the right words.

11. Prove a lady’s character before committing, don’t hurry to commit or talk about marriage. Make sure she really has a good character, if she got something you can’t cope with, don’t hope, leave today.

12. Don’t marry a lady for cooking or sex: nothing brings dignity like moral sanity.

13. Have a goal for your life, no one plans to fail, they fail because they are not prepared.

14. Don’t price love with money/materials. You can’t buy it.

15. Don’t abuse her.

16. Don’t look for a perfect girl, none is perfect: the person you are admiring, you don’t know their baggage or rather their garbage.

17. A real man: talks less, is an investor, is firm, has a mind of his own, he loves God, sets for excellence, respects parents. When you are firm you are not pushed around.

18. Before meeting parents make sure you are grounded in prayer.

19. the worst kind of pride is spiritual pride, a lady even tells you on your face she is spiritually matured more than you. She will never listen to you.

20. Its only when you can’t correct things that you leave the relationship: but try to fix things first. If a year passes and no change at all, not even small change stop hoping, leave!

21. make sure you know her family: any lady you don’t know her family members you don’t know her (if she don’t want you to meet any of them, something is wrong, she is hiding something).

YOUNG EVANGELICAL MISSION

10 Common Signs That Your Boyfriend/Husband Is Cheating

1. He suddenly had a make-over.

A sudden transformation in your spouse is not very normal. If your couch-potato husband is suddenly hitting the gym, then you better watch out. There may be a younger colleague he is trying to impress or he has found a new partner in the gym itself.

6 ways to know you are dating a wife material and not a slay queen - Stop being fooled.

Ways To Know If You Are Dating A Wife Material – “Forever till death do us part” is a long time to spend with anybody and that is why the choice of picking a partner to spend forever with is one of the most important decisions we will ever make in our life.

The parameter for choosing a wife goes beyond looks as character is the most important quality and that is why you might want to check if your girlfriend has these ten qualities listed below before you make her a wife.

1. She is Economical:

One of the biggest signs to watch out for in trying to determine whether your girl is wife material is how well she handles money. The wife material is a saver and does not need to go on endless shopping sprees to feel good. She is the type of woman that can use the little given to her to produce amazing results. She helps you to build up your savings and you always get the best of every penny spent. Moreover if you have a woman that knows how to manage money then you have no need to fear her taking yours.

2. She Has Goals

There is nothing more perfect than a woman who has goals and ambition. When it comes to achieving things, she is not a doormat or walkover. The wife material knows what she wants to do with life and nothing will stop her from reaching her goals. A woman that has career and life goals is self confident and would have strength of character which is a good thing for any marriage.

3. She supports your dream

A woman with dreams and ambition is wife material but even more appealing is a woman who supports your own goals and helps you be a better person. When she is your biggest fan and cheerleads you to every victory, know you have found your better half. She will have your back no matter what and allows you to have the time you need to do what you have to do because she knows your dreams are just as important as hers.

4. She respects your family and friends

Your wife material alert better be ringing loud and clear if you have a woman that respects not only you but your family as well as your gang of friends. She doesn’t nag when you have a guys’ night out or when your mom needs your attention. She is the kind of girl that fits right in and talks nineteen to the dozen with your loved ones like she has known them all her life. There is something wrong if she doesn’t even try to connect with your family and friends and its best you take a hike if she is the type that only has criticism for those that have been with you your whole life.

5. She’s a great cook

There is a popular saying that the fastest way to a man’s heart is through is stomach. If she does your cooking for you without complaining then you should know you are dating a well brought up lady. There is nothing more enticing than coming home to a well prepared dish and a lovely woman at the end of the day. She cooks great? Wife her now before someone else finds that treasure.

6. She’s responsible

Every man’s dream is to find a responsible woman to spend the rest of his lifetime with and the first way to know this is if you have a woman that has a good way of managing her own life. She is independent, doesn’t need to get drunk every weekend before she has fun, you don’t see her at every party and she knows when to spend time alone with you.

10 Signs You Have Found Your Perfect Boyfriend

While every woman has a different definition of what her “perfect” guy would be, these are 10 signs to indicate that your boyfriend is for keeps.

1. He is interesting.

Life is too short to be thinking of other things when he is talking. Whatever his interests and passions, he is exciting and fun to be around. In fact, he will introduce you to a side of life that you haven’t seen before. I know someone who had never parasailed, driven a motorbike or been to an opera before she met her boyfriend.

2. He makes you a better person.

You are already amazing, but being with him brings out the best in you. It’s like having a personal male cheerleader! Your strengths are further amplified, and you think life just can’t get any better.

3. He makes you feel beautiful.

You don’t have to be Scarlet Johansson or Angelina Jolie to feel pretty. When you are with him, you feel like the most attractive woman on Earth. He treats you like his princess, and rightfully so.


4. He expresses his love.

He’s pretty much on top of his game when it comes to sweeping you off your feet, yet again. True to his own style, sometimes that can mean preparing a home cooked meal, surprising you at the airport or simply saying “I love you.

5. He is honest.

Forget the yes-man and people-pleaser. Truth is the foundation of a robust and lasting relationship. It saves you from unnecessary misunderstandings and helps build trust quickly.

6. He makes every effort to wipe away your tears.



You happiness is of utmost importance to him. In your moments of downtime, he tries to be funny, sexy or Superman, or pretty much anything that will bring a smile on your face.

7. He appreciates who you are.

You are unique and wonderful in your own way. Whether you wake up the neighborhood with your bathroom singing or like solving Sudoku puzzles in the middle of the night, he accepts you exactly the way you are. He doesn’t want to change anything about you.

8. He keeps his promises.

It can be extremely annoying when a guy insists that he will do something, but never gets around to do it. A true gentleman doesn’t backtrack on his words, but walks the talk. You rest assured that he only makes commitments that he intends to keep.

9. He stands by you.

He may not agree with your every decision, but supports the choices you make. He is there for you in success and in failure, in health and in sickness, in laughter and in tears.

 10. He is not a control freak.

Watch out for the guy who is overly generous about “constructive criticism,” has unrealistic expectations and wants to micromanage you. Who wants Hitler as a partner? Experiencing freedom in a relationship is not too much to ask for.

Remember that perfection doesn’t exist, but there is someone imperfectly perfect out there for you. And I hope that all you remarkable women find The One and end up marrying him — just like me.